Lazy Saturday

Today is a lazy Saturday and we are all loving it. Lots of playing on the swing set and collecting pine cones from the side yard.  Zach and Rachel (the couple that lived with us for 8 months) came to visit this morning. They were doing volunteer work in South Africa for Rachel's schooling and just arrived home. We are glad they are back in the US, and soon, (hopefully...) to be back in Grand Rapids after Rachel finishes her graduate work in Chicago.

Noah has had a rough week. Changes in his schedule are always difficult for him, but this week was more so than usual. He is figuring out how to outmaneuver me when he is in time out. We are anxiously awaiting his bedroom in the new house that will be built especially for him. It will be a safe place for him to go when he needs some time away and I won't have to worry what he's up to or what he's getting into.  It will also allow me to sleep at night without worrying that he has wandered. It may sound mean to some, but there will be a lock on his door so he can't get out without us knowing.  It's more for safety than anything else.

Josh's spasms seem to be a bit better this week. He seems to be better all around, and for that we are thankful. He has started doing some work for the two golf invitationals being put together to benefit our ministry.  It is all graphic work and he's really got a gift for that. He was doing some of this type of work before his accident so it's nice to see him getting back into it!

Ephram has been a bit fussy and his nose is running again.  This is usually the sign of another ear infection. After taking him in, we decided to get him in to an ENT  to have tubes placed in his ears. Zoe had this done numerous times when she was younger and it made all the difference!  We figure we may as well go ahead with it with Ephram if the doctor believes it will help. We have an amazing pediatrician who is so helpful! If anyone in the area needs a recommendation, let me know!

I am going to be having surgery myself on Monday, May 12. It is going to be complicated trying to figure out all the logistics of it, but it's too hard to put off any longer. I am having a hysterectomy because of numerous reasons, all more than anyone needs to know! :-)   The surgery is no big deal but not being able to help with Josh or the kids makes it harder for me emotionally.  I am going to treat it like a little retreat for myself.  I will probably stay at my mom and dad's for a few days after the surgery and just lay around (wait? didn't I just do that last week?) .  Anyway, please be praying that everything will come together so that the family is well taken care of while I am recovering.

That's all for today.  I am off to take some kids for an evening bike ride. The weather has been absolutely beautiful and we've loved spending time outside. I even noticed Noah has a bit of a tan after the last few days outside. We have a lot to be thankful for. Much love.

Print | posted @ Saturday, April 19, 2008 5:46 PM

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by heather at 4/19/2008 8:21 PM

i know i've commented before about noah.. as he's so much like my son samuel. we have had a lock on his door as well- for his safety and for me to sleep. you're doing wonderful, and it does get better. i'm praying for you still as you all figure out meds and therapies how to be one step ahead. i know it's tough.

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by Sue Simpson at 4/19/2008 9:39 PM

Please..we've been locking Matthew in his room for over a year! That kid would be half way to Toledo by dusk if given free reign! Good luck with the surgery!!
Sue
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by Annie at 4/19/2008 11:08 PM

Shelly - I've noted posted before but have been following your story from the beginning. My DH and I are pastors of a small church and we have prayed for your family often. I chose to send a note to offer a very informative web site called www.hystersisters.com that may help answer some questions for you about your upcoming surgery. I had one 4 years ago. Since the surgery, I've discovered a lot I wish I had known before, questions to ask, resources to find, etc. It's been a good site to find answers and that's been important.
We will continue to pray for your family and trust that God is still holding each of you in the palms of His hands.
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by Jamie at 4/21/2008 8:24 AM

You'll be soooooooo happy with your surgery. The hystersister website is very helpful. After you heal up you'll be so happy!! It is a freedom! Be upbeat and positive and know that GOD is not up in Heaven wringing is hands worrying about your life...so neither should you: HE is totally in control. God Bless
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by S at 4/22/2008 10:28 AM

Good luck with everything! I hope you are having a laparoscopic hyst, if not, you will have a bit of a lengthy healing, so be prepared for that. Make sure to take care of yourself, even though I am sure it is tough!
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by Sue at 4/22/2008 10:31 AM

Good luck with everything! I hope you are having a laparoscopic surgery, since you don't have a lot of time to dedicate to healing. If not, that is ok too, but be prepared for a lengthy recovery. It is all dependent on big incisions versus small holes with laparoscopic. Praying it all comes out ok and that you take the time you need to heal.
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by Sharlene MacLaren at 4/23/2008 12:02 AM

You KNOW we will pray extra hard for you as May 12 draws near. By then your mom will be feeling so much better and she'll be itching to start helping out again. Just let her do it. She's a mom. It will be good for both of you.

Hugs and prayers...
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by Becky Cook at 4/25/2008 9:40 AM

Hi, Shelly. I will be much in prayer for you for your upcoming surgery. Isn't it good to know our God is in control?? I love keeping up with your family!! Tell your mom she has been in my thoughts and prayers much too.
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by Marianne at 4/26/2008 2:04 AM

Shelly, let me know if you need anything during your healing. My mom had a hysterectomy a few years ago and required more healing than expected, so if you need it, please take the time and don't over-do it! Give me call if you need anything, even if it's just a slurpee delivery out to Allendale =)
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by patty kemple at 4/26/2008 12:47 PM

love and prayers to all, patty

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